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This week, we read about the last three plagues to strike Egypt before our ancestors escaped the tyranny of Pharaoh. The ninth plague, was the plague of darkness.  ”There was thick darkness over the entire land of Egypt for three days. No man could see his brother, nor could any person even rise from his place for three days.” (Exodus 10:22-22)

We are taught that the darkness was not simply the result of lack of light, but also the presence of a thick fog that got worse with time. When the plague of darkness fell upon Egypt, people could not see. Within a few days, we are taught that the darkness was so thick that they could not even move. However, in the Jewish homes, the Torah teaches us that “there was light”.

I believe that the darkness of the ninth plague still persists in our world today. So many people walk around incapable of seeing the incredible world around them, incapable of moving forward and reaching their dreams. This is why Ramat Shalom is so important. Our community emanates light. It cuts through the darkness and the fog and breathes life and energy into each of us. I am so proud of the work we do here and so grateful to each and every single one of you who supports us and makes it possible to keep the lights burning brightly.

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Have you ever heard something about someone and believed it – only later to realize that what you were led to believe was totally wrong?  Certainly all of us have been in this situation.  This is why Judaism vehemently prohibits all forms of gossip and what we call l’shon hara (evil speech).  “Gossiping” in Judaism includes sharing any information about someone else even if it is complimentary, even if it is true, even if the person being talked about would volunteer the information on her own and even if the intention of the “gossiper” is good.  Sharing information that appears to be harmless is equivalent to what the Torah calls “talebearing”, something forbidden in Judaism.

 

Most of us are guilty of “talebearing” on a regular basis.  And really, what is wrong with sharing non-secretive, complimentary facts about someone else?  This week’s Torah portion explains….

 

Jacob and his brother Esau have been estranged ever since Jacob tricked his brother out of the birthright – basically stealing what was rightfully Esau’s.  This week, Jacob decides it is time to make things good with Esau.  Jacob sends messengers to Esau instructing them to tell his brother that he hopes to reconcile with him.  The messengers return, saying: “we came to your brother Esau; he himself is coming to meet you and there are four hundred men with him.”  Jacob assumes that this means that Esau is coming to wage war against him.  The Torah tells us that Jacob is “greatly frightened”.  He prepares for the worst.  However, when Esau and his four hundred men arrive to meet Jacob, the Torah tells us that “Esau ran to greet Jacob.  Esau embraced him and, falling on his neck, he kissed him and the two of them wept.”  Jacob quickly realizes that the messengers had led him to believe something that was not true: his brother was not out to harm him.  On the contrary, Esau was also seeking reconciliation.

 

This story teaches us the dangers of “talebearing”.  When we share information about someone else that appears to be harmless, we can mislead people into believing something false about the individual being discussed.  Esau was coming to Jacob.  He was accompanied by four hundred men.  But, he was not coming to attack his brother.  “Talebearing” is wrong because, as we learn from the story above, even “facts” can be misinterpreted.

 

We must work hard not be “talebearers”.  It is not easy.  On top of this, today we must pay close attention to the dangers that e-mail and texting present us with – mainly the fact that our quick one-liners that are electronically transmitted from our smart phones or computers are easily misunderstood and can send messages about ourselves that we don’t intend to send.  How many times have you gotten a text or e-mail and incorrectly assumed from the message that the sender was upset with you?  While not “talebearing”, the perils of e-mail and texting remind us how powerful our words, both spoken and written, can be and how carefully we must use them.  If used well, our words can be holy.  When used without thought, our words can be weapons.

 

Unfortunately, our culture encourages us to use our words as weapons.  “Talebearing,” gossiping, making assumptions about others – these are part and parcel of our society.  But this does not mean we can’t rise above this negativity.  We can watch our words.  We can think before we speak/type.  We can refuse to listen to gossip.  We can get to know people instead of making assumptions about them.  And we can learn that there are times when it is just not necessary to speak.  “A knowledgeable person is sparing with her words.”  (Proverbs 17:27)

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Today, when we talk about olive oil, we are usually talking about salad dressings or the health benefits of monounsaturated fatty acids and antioxidants.  This Shabbat, however, when we read about olive oil in the Torah, we are reading about the fuel that was used to kindle the lamps in the ancient, desert sanctuary.  According to the Torah, this fuel was to be “pure, virgin” olive oil.  Today, pure, virgin olive oil refers to oil that contains very little acid content and was not refined or produced with chemicals.
But things were different in ancient times.

In ancient Israel, olive oil was doubly graded. The first grade was based upon the tree position of the olive from which the oil was extracted.  The higher the olive was on the tree, the riper it would be; the riper the olive, the better the oil. The second grade was based upon the purity of the oil.  Oil purity was determined largely by the means used to extract the oil from the olive.  The purest oil was the first drop squeezed from the olive.  Lower categories of oil included  oil extracted by pressing or crushing the olives.Based upon this, it would be safe to assume that the “pure, virgin” oil described in this week’s Torah portion – oil used to kindle the lamps in the ancient sanctuary – must have consisted of the first drops of oil squeezed from olives that were picked from tops of olive trees.  But this might not have been the case.

According to the Talmud, the location of the olive on the tree was not important.  While an olive at the top of a tree was likely to be riper than an olive at the bottom of a tree and, thus, more likely to yield better oil than the oil at the bottom of the tree, the Talmud teaches that what really determined the quality of an olive’s oil was the manner it which the oil was extracted.  Thus, the first drop squeezed from an olive at the bottom of a tree could be used to kindle the lights in the ancient sanctuary.  Oil that was extracted by crushing an olive that grew at the top of the tree could not be used to kindle the lights.  The holiness of the oil had nothing to do with the “status” of the olive but, rather, the way the oil was harvested.

What can we learn from this today?

No matter what our position is in the various different communities, organizations and groups that we are a part of – we have the potential to do, say or create something truly remarkable.  While we might be the lowest guy on the totem pole, our skills, creativity and effort can produce something that outshines the guys at the top.  When God gives us lemons, we are taught to make lemonade.  This week’s Torah portion teaches us a slightly different lesson: if God gives us low-hanging olives – squeeze out the highest quality olive oil.

 

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So Moses came and told the people all the words of the Lord and all the ordinances, and all the people answered in unison and said, “All the words that the Lord has spoken we will do.” Exodus 23:3

Last week, we read the Ten Commandments that were given to our ancestors by G-d at Mount Sinai. This week we read the additional laws, rules and ordinances that were given at Mt. Sinai. We also read the verse above which captures the moment our ancestors committed themselves to G-d’s laws. Certainly there have been times when we have questioned and challenged this commitment. Yet, we have continued to honor it for thousands of years.

In today’s world, commitments are easily broken. If promises and obligations that we were once morally and/or legally responsible to fulfill become too challenging, we often find excuses to back out of these promises and obligations. Certainly, there are times when doing so is valid. Sadly, most of the time, we do so simply because we are selfish: living up to our responsibilities requires us to behave in a manner that benefits the commitments we have made as opposed to benefiting ourselves. When it comes to committing ourselves to someone or something, selfishness has no place. Commitment requires placing a relationship above individual needs and wants. Commitment requires us to ask, “what is best for us” as opposed to “what is best for me”.

Given all of this, I was inspired by a rather unlikely source of inspiration – American Idol. If you haven’t seen this, you must take a moment to watch it. It reminds us what true commitment is all about.

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Sermon given October 8th, 2010

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This week, please visit the Reform Movement’s “Shabbat Table Talk” site to explore the story of Noah.

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Click HERE to get this week’s parasha.

Stop by on Friday for weekly thoughts on the parasha and add your own thoughts as well!

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Why were Adam and Eve banished from the Garden of Eden?

Usually, the answer is: “because they ate from the Tree of Knowledge”.  Indeed, the first humans did eat from this tree – a tree that God told the couple not to eat from.  After being enticed by the serpent, Eve disobeys God and eats the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge and has Adam do the same.  Once they do so, the Torah tells us that their eyes were opened.

Prior to this point. Adam and Eve were pretty much clueless about the world around them.  They were God’s puppets.  They had no concept of right and wrong.  But, upon eating from the Tree of Knowledge – they gained the ability to discern between good and bad.  They immediately developed a sense of morality.  This is why the very first thing that Adam and Eve do after eating the fruit is sew together fig leaves to cover their nakedness.

God was certainly angry with the first couple for violating His orders and eating from Tree of Knowledge.  Adam and Eve were no longer clueless.  Given that they could determine between right and wrong, they now had the ability to make their own decisions and did not need to rely upon God.  In essence, they cut the puppet strings that were controlled by God.  And this filled God with rage.  But, this is not the reason He banishes the couple from the Garden of Eden.

God banishes them because His supreme authority was now threatened by the couple.  There was, according to the Torah, just one thing that separated Adam and Eve from God: immortality.  Their ability to know good and bad made Adam and Eve god-like.  If they were to live forever, they could become gods themselves.  And the problem was that in the Garden of Eden stood the Tree of Life.  If they were to eat from this tree, like they did from the Tree of Knowledge, well, they would gain immortality.  They had to be kept from that tree.  And so, God banishes them from the Garden of Eden insuring that His sovereignty would remain intact.

Despite the fact that Adam and Eve didn’t get us immortality, they still gave us all a tremendous gift.  By eating from the Tree of Knowledge, they gave us the skills needed to use the brain in our head.  They gave us the ability to make decision and, thus, the ability to act.  By breaking God’s rule, Adam and Eve gave us free will.  God does not control our actions – says the Torah.  The idea that our lives are controlled by God – that we are God’s tools – put here for a Divine purpose – this is not what this week’s parasha teaches us.  On the contrary, this week’s story teaches us that we have to make our own decisions.

All too often, I hear God get blamed for our poor choices.  Whether it be something huge and catastrophic like the Holocaust or something much smaller like a personal financial crisis – God is easy to blame.  “Why God!  Why are you doing this to me!?  Maybe You are testing me God!  Please God get me out of this!”  The story we read in the Torah this week makes it explicitly clear that with the exception of many illnesses, we are the masters of our destiny.  We are the ones who get ourselves into most of the situations we find ourselves in.  Poor choices – choices we had the power to make – present us with many of the challenges we have to face today.  (And we can make choices that get us out of these challenging times!) The current economic situation is a perfect example of this.  In this way, Adam and Eve’s gift of freewill has the potential to be a curse.  Our ability to make our own choices comes with ups and downs.

We learn this week that we are created in the image of God.  What this means is not totally clear.  Somehow we were created as a representation of God.  We know from the story of Adam and Eve – we were not created originally with knowledge or immortality.  Within the first generation of our existence – we gained that knowledge.  We are left with our own mortality.

While some would say we are left with the curse mortality, I prefer to think of it as being left with the blessing of a finite life.  Unfortunately, I believe that many of the problems we find ourselves facing today – personal and global problems – are the result of the fact that we fail to comprehend that we are mortal.  We go about our days thinking that we are, indeed, immortal.  And, thus, we don’t think about the ramifications of our actions.

We say things to people without giving a thought to the possibility that the words we shared might very well be the last words we ever share with these people.  We don’t ask ourselves: will my words accurately reflect how I feel about these people?

We do things that foster our own egos and advance our own selfish interests.  But we often do these things without thinking about the effects of our actions and the legacy that our actions will leave when we are gone.  We don’t ask ourselves: what will my actions tell the world about who I really was?

If we were immortal, perhaps it wouldn’t matter what we said or what we did.  We would always have tomorrow to fix things and try again.  We wouldn’t have to worry about the harm our actions might bring us.  But, we never got a chance to eat from that Tree of Life.  And, for that, we have to thank God – because, by keeping us from becoming gods ourselves, God has insured that our lives are finite.  A life with a beginning and an end should force us to make each and every single day the best day that it can be.  Our mortality urges us to make goals and aspire for great things.  It pleads with us to use our knowledge and free will to make the most out of our days and maximize each moment.

But, most of us don’t do this.  We think we know it all.  And, this week’s Torah portion, in some ways, supports this.  We do know it all or at least have the potential to know it all, thanks to Adam and Eve eating from the Tree of Knowledge.  But that’s not why we were kicked out of the Garden of Eden.  We were kicked out to keep us mortal.  We know that we are – but we don’t like to admit it.  This week’s Torah portion is a very important reminder that we, unlike God, have a beginning and an ending – just like the year we have now started. This week’s portion tosses our mortality in our face.  But not in a spiteful way.  Rather as a gentle reminder to appreciate this temporary gift we have each been given.  May we all learn to appreciate our life and make each day a blessing.

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As you read last week, BlogShalom will be attempting and yearlong, on-line Torah study project that I hope you will take part in. And the project starts right here, right now!  We start at the beginning of the Torah, in the parasha (weekly Torah portion) known as Bereisheet.  This parasha contains the Jewish creation story.  In six days, Gd created the heavens and the earth.  If you try to read this story from a rational/scientific point of view, you might find yourself getting frustrated.  This is a spiritual story. Do not look at the literal meaning.  Look deeper, beneath the words and you will discover the powerful lessons of Torah – lessons we can apply to our own lives today.

The most important lesson contained in this week’s parasha is the idea that on the 7th day, we must rest.  Gd rested after spending six busy days creating. In our tradition, the 7th day, the Sabbath, is Saturday.  The week starts again on Sunday.  As the Torah portion tells us, God declared Saturday to be a holy day – a day of rest for us all.  But, how many of us take advantage of this holy day – a day on which our tradition teaches us that we are to rest?  A day on which we are to stop working, stop “creating”, stop rushing around and simply “be” – be with our family/freinds, be with a good book, be by the pool/beach, be at the synagogue…It is a day that most of us fail to observe.  Saturday has become errand day or get the kids to soccer day.  Our challenge is to make Saturday Shabbat.  Start simple.  Perhaps begin with Friday night dinner (remember, Jewish days start at night – so Shabbat begins Friday at sundown).  Maybe you can make Saturday a cellphone free day.  Or commit to giving yourself 1 hour every Shabbat to spend on the couch with a good book.  Some of us are craving this time, we just need permission to take it. You have permission!  Some of us do not know how to sit still.  We feel like resting is a waste of time.  And we are so wrong! When Gd rested on the first Shabbat, Gd was able to appreciate all that He had created during the first six days.  When we follow Gd’s lead and rest on Shabbat, when we act godly and take the time to appreciate our work and our blessings, we come to realize that resting is not wasting time – it is giving thanks for the time we have.

As we start reading the Torah together, I challenge each of you to live the words of Torah.  Try giving yourself Shabbat – time to rest and appreciate all that you have.  Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences here on the Blog.  I look forward to learning from you.

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On Thursday evening, as part of our incredible Simchat Torah celebration, we begin reading the Torah all over again – starting with the Book of Genesis.  This is the perfect time for you to begin reading our story – especially if you have never done so.  This week, we read about the creation of the world and the tale of Adam and Eve.  You can find the parasha (weekly Torah reading) here: http://www.jtsa.edu/PreBuilt/ParashahArchives/jpstext/bereshit.shtml.
Starting this Friday, here on BlogShalom, I will be posting some issues and questions pertaining to the weekly parasha.  At the beginning of each week, I will send out a link that will direct you to the parasha.  I encourage you to read it and join the weekly discussion on the blog.
The stories in the Torah are ancient, but still teach us lessons that are so very relevant to our lives today.  I look forward to studying Torah with you!
Don’t forget to gather your friends and family – put on your dancing shoes and join us for Simchat Torah, Thursday at 7:00PM.  Yizkor at 6:30.

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